Do you relate from security or from fear?

Relationship patterns are the recurring dynamics that shape your bonds: the position you take in power dynamics, how you balance dependency and autonomy, how you respond to conflict, and the kinds of connections you tend to create. These patterns can repeat across relationships until you begin to recognize them.

Understanding your relationship patterns allows you to stop asking "why does the same thing always happen to me?" and start seeing what pattern you are reproducing and how to change it.

What does this test measure?

What will you get?

A map of your dominant relational dynamics, what position you tend to occupy, and what changes could help you relate with more equality and satisfaction. In the PRO report, Block E is analysed alongside Attachment Style (Block B) and sub-block E1 (Communication Style) to complete your relationship patterns.

How do you relate to power and dependency?

30 questions. 10 minutes. Free and immediate result.


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Frequently Asked Questions

What are relationship patterns?
They are the recurring dynamics that shape how you relate, including power balance, dependency and autonomy, and your response to conflict.
What are power dynamics?
Patterns that regulate who holds authority and who yields. When they are rigid and unconscious, they can create conflict and serious imbalances.
What is the difference between dependency and love?
Dependency is driven by fear and the need for security. Mature love is a free choice that does not require another person in order to function.
How long does the test take?
The 30 questions take approximately 10-12 minutes.
Does it include the Karpman drama triangle?
Yes. The Victim-Persecutor-Rescuer model is one of the frameworks used to explore power dynamics.
Can relationship patterns change?
Yes. Awareness, understanding where patterns come from, and practicing new ways of setting boundaries and connecting can help them change.
How does it relate to attachment style?
Attachment describes your basic bonding blueprint. Relationship patterns show how that blueprint appears in everyday dynamics: who leads, who yields, and who pursues.